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What is it like to be the one who doesn't fuck up constantly?
What is it like to be the one who doesn't fuck up constantly?
Everyone has days where they feel like they don't belong to themselves, right? It's almost as if we belong more to each other... So are you ever really truly your own person?
We came to be because of them choosing to become an us, and then choosing to make a me, who immediately becomes part of a we. I know, it sounds crazy, because even in all the us and them and they and we, it's said that there is a me. But me will always be part of we, no matter what we all try to be.
Today, I met a little boy.
Sort of. I was teaching some of my team members when I felt a tiny tap against the back of my knee. I was confused because I didn't see anyone walk by me in my periphery. I turned around anyway, and saw a small little boy looking up at me with the most concerned look on his face. I waved at him, and he continued to pout at me until he decided to look away.
I continued talking with my team and I then felt small kicks to my shoe. I knew who it was now, and turned around to see this little boy tapping his red shoes against mine. His dad urged him to stop, but since I don't know Japanese, I couldn't say it was fine.
I ended up getting the kid to draw on a Surface, and there's really no significance to it other than it was damn cute.
Today I met a couple who's been playing tennis together for 30 years.
I asked how their day was going, and it turns out the husband had just had a tennis match. I asked if he won, and he said no, but at this point in time, he was just happy to be able to keep up with such good players.
I suppose when you get to a certain age, winning matters less.
Today I met an Australian couple who had been all over the world in the course of 4 months.
They rolled in looking for an SD card, explaining that they wanted to take more videos of their vacation. I asked them how long they were here for, and it was only a week... But they had been to a ton of places... Let's see if I can remember, obviously not the order:
Thailand
Georgia
UK
NYC
Japan
Mexico
They shared that while they liked Mexico the best, each place was very unique and beautiful for different reasons.
Today I met a waiter.
I've actually met him a few times, mostly because I've gone to Tonkatsu Tamafuji more than a few times... Anyone who knows me also knows that I binge on a type of food until I hate it and never want to eat it again. Ok... That's not really true but you get the point.
Anyway, I've seen this waiter a few times, and I'm sure he recognized me. He was my waiter yesterday as well. I wonder what waiters think of regulars, especially the regulars at places that serve really specialized things. This place doesn't serve anything but katsu, so I wonder...
Today I met two people who approached the same problem differently.
They weren't my customers initially, my coworker was helping them out at first. He had to go to lunch, so he asked me to take over. In short, he said that we needed to reset her email password because the way her email was configured on her computer was preventing emails from populating in Outlook. He also shared that the husband was being pretty grumpy with the phone reps, and was swearing at them.
Anyway, the wife was super thankful that we were able to help her fix the problem. This is even in spite of the fact that they were on the phone for an hour. After I fixed her problem, she shared that her husband also might have needed help. He was so sour at the moment, that he didn't even respond to me or her asking if he needed anything.
I guess I would be pretty sour too, but at the same time... If I needed help, I'd take it in whatever form it came in at that time. The most ironic part about this is that one of them is a pastor at a Diamond Head church... You'd think that the message of the church would carry over, but you never know.
Today I met a small shop owner.
He rolled into the store looking for a new computer, and one of my new employees was helping him out. I talked to him a little about his business, and he said he owned a shop that sells groceries and other knick-knacks. As my teammate was entering his information, I learned that he's from Pohnpei in Micronesia, and was here with his daughter who's starting her second (or first) year of college.
He was really enthusiastic about technology and was excited to be in the store!
Today I met an photography hobbyist and her military husband.
My mom and I headed towards Waimanalo Country Farms because she wanted to see the sunflowers. While we were there, she saw a man taking pictures of the restored Volkswagen van sitting in the field. She asked him to take a picture, and then offered to take one of him and his wife.
His wife offered to take pictures for us as well, and really that's where the fun began. She and my mom ended up taking pictures all through the sunflower fields because both of them are "the photographers in the family."
Her husband and I talked about what he does, and he does IT for the military. We talked about how he and his wife do a lot of stuff outdoors, and that's where they spend most of their time together. He even shared that they met in Colorado Springs. We talked about being in Iceland, as he was stationed there for a year. She visited him there before they were married, and took a picture at one of the famous waterfalls on the southern coast.
It's the picture that they have framed together in their living room as one of their first adventures together. I think that's the sweetest thing.
Today I met a parking attendant.
I don't normally go to this parking structure, but even then, parking structures usually have the gate down. It forces people to take the ticket to enter and track their time. The gate was up, so I asked the attendant, "Do I need to take a ticket?"
"Do you need to take a ticket? Of course you need to take a ticket."
The woman was Filipino, and spoke with the flair and emphasis of any older Filipino woman. If you watch a lot of teleseryes, then you know. I don't know if she's been to other parking structures, but they all don't operate like hers. I was mildly entertained, since she was so serious with her response.
Today I met some students from Haifa, Israel.
They were attending the computer seeing conference that the professor I met previously also attended. However, they weren't as friendly, and were pretty tight-lipped when I asked about them.
I would later learn that the conference they attended talked about the technology it takes to develop Hololens, and how it even hosted some of Microsoft's leaders in AI and virtual reality. Amazing.
Today, I met a waiter at Pho 777.
To be fair, I had encountered him a few times when I ate there more frequently. It's funny how you can notice someone having grown in your few interactions from them. Compared to when I last visited, he seemed more outgoing and more willing to engage people and chitchat. Previously, he wouldn't have talked much, but this time, he did.
I used to come here often, and the main cashier, Bob, always seemed to remember me. I didn't see him today, but I would have if I did.
Today I went to Banan, I didn't meet anyone particular there today... But it reminded me of who I encountered the week before.
The cashier I met the week previously is one of the boys who own the brand. I only recognized him because his black shirt with banana and fruit print was prominently featured on the food chain's Instagram, and on the news. They were considered one of the best vegan ice cream sundaes for the year.
He seemed rather quiet, based on our interaction... And to be fair, I was kind of tired from my volunteering earlier in the day. He asked how my day was going, and I shared where I volunteered. The guy thought it was cool, and I assumed he would. The business model of the chain is based off of the idea of getting everything supplied locally and in season.
The Banan was worth it today. I haven't stopped wanting it since.
Today I met a commercial and business lawyer.
He came in, asking about our signature products and sharing that he loved our new hero product. It was especially important because he didn't even use it for creative things. He just ran documents and drafted diagrams on it occasionally.
When I asked him what he did for work, he shared he was a lawyer. "Yeah I don't like to brag too much, because it makes me feel weird."
"Oh, it's ok, I asked so sometimes it's good to be aware of what you've accomplished."
He eventually shared that he passed the bar on the first try in 1985, and has been practicing law since. He said he felt fortunate to have all the success that he did. I explained the hero products we had several times, and he repeated his questions several times. I didn't mind, he was just trying to understand.
Before leaving, he shared, "You know, I like you. You're very good and you do a good job explaining things. I'm not a dumb person."
"I mean, you're a lawyer, you probably understand stuff pretty well."
"I do tons of business cases and understand the complexities of that, but I just don't get computers, so thank you."
I thought it was really nice of him.
Today I met a woman who owns a musubi store on Maui.
She is from Oahu, but moved there because of her boyfriend or partner. I asked if she had a signature musubi, but she shared it was pretty standard. She even has a storefront in Wailuku.
I thought it was cool though. You never know what will stick in a neighborhood.
Today I met a vendor for law software.
I attended a paralegal conference, aimed at informing them about software available for that field. Judging by the audience and other presenters, I was probably one of the younger people there. I took a seat at our partner vendor.
Next to his seat was another software representative. The way he talked to me was a little weird, maybe I look younger than I am. Sometimes that has happened.
"Are you excited [to present]?"
"I don't know if excited is the right word."
The presentation was received warmly, so I took a seat back at the table while my partner took the stage.
"Wow, you did such a good job up there. You know, I use a Mac, but I really love..."
He continued to drone on. I didn't really pay attention because I don't like feeling like someone is talking to me like I'm a kid. Maybe he thought I was young, and I mean, I do look young sometimes... But geez. I'm an adult female, so come on!
I met a gym worker today.
I registered for 24-hour Fitness, and the guy was really nice. What I didn't know is that 24 has a fingerprint scanner. During the process he asked me to scan my fingers, and then "think of a 10 digit code that you'll remember to check it."
I kind of looked at him with a confused look, then Tam suggested, "Your phone number."
It clicked, so I gave it to him. I guess he's used to saying it, since it sounded like he said it all the time... But geez why did he say it like that? Maybe to protect my privacy, but that's so confusing!
I didn't meet anyone today, or do anything that remind me of another person I'd met previously. I did spend today thinking about how I want to change the layout of these specific blogs so it's less forced.
Expect it on the next post. :)
Someone I met today is a big wave surfer.
His name is Robin, and so is his kid's; his kid just preferred Robbie. I attended the Hawaii Conservation Conference, and there were a lot of people who work in conservation and restoration projects throughout the state.
He is a big wave surfer, and his kid loves the ocean. Currently though, they live in North Carolina because Robbie is a gifted kid and none of the schools here can teach him at a challenging level. Robbie loves nature so much that they wanted to, or already started, an organization called Kids Speak for Parks. The purpose is to talk work towards preserving access to National Parks and monuments.
I can't find it on the internet yet, but I can't wait to see what comes of it.
Someone I met today is an accountant.
Fortunately, he seemed pretty ok with the computer and we showed him how to get through the different steps of setting up a bluetooth mouse. I wonder what I'll be like in 40 years.